Friday, September 19, 2008

To my friends.

Feeling:
Weather:
Music: Carols

Well, I realised I've got SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO many emo friends around me now.
It's NOT a good sign.

They're emo. And it hurts and irritates me to see them whole life the face like bin chao chao like that.
It really pisses me off at times.
Like, seriously, WHO DOESN'T GET EMO?!
But wahlao eh, can just try to smile anot? At least TRY and MAKE AN EFFORT RIGHT?

Gawd, I always scold Xinying like real harshly for being emo.

I don't understand, when I'm not feeling the right mood, i don't really put the unhappiness onto others.
At least, I try to smile.

But those emo friends out there!
why make yrself more upset when you already are?
I don't know what happened at home, what happened in school, what happened to you,
BUT,
plastering a sulky face for the whole day DEFINITELY WON'T help.

It's like adding more sorrow to yr unhappiness.
Worth it? *shakes head*

I hate it to see my friends emo. It's like, idk, i feel like scolding them to wake them up.
They say:
"LIFE IS NOT FAIR."
"LIFE IS NOT GREAT."
"YOU WON'T UNDERSTAND."
"AIYA, YOUR LIFE SO GOOD DON'T COMPARE WITH MINE."
-.-
Life's that torturous to y'all is it?
Yes, i might not understand, but please, my life ain't good too.
But at least, i try to go along with it.
AND TRY MAKE MY DAY GOOD.
by making others happy. you feel good.

If you're not convinced,
think of the people in those 3rd world country, think of those people in a natural disaster, think of people who are going hungry, think of those people who lost their parents..
WHAT MORE CAN WE COMPLAIN ABOUT?
We've got parents, family, friends, school, money, food, water, and you have the comfort of sitting in front of the computer reading my blog!

I really agitated at this post. 'Cause I really hate it to see people emo.
and when I go talk my logic to y'all,
i get replies like,
"Haizx, you're not me, you won't understand."
"Eh, don't scold me can not."
"Seeeeee, everyone angry with me." (talking about you, xinying. haha)

Sometimes i would be like "wtf?".
But nevertheless, I'm still your friend, I will try my best to help.
Seriously, i love y'all so i want everyone to be happy.
but friends, are you making an effort?

I know yr life can be full of conflicts, SO WHAT?
why not take things positively, make someone happy, make yourself happy?
It doesn't hurt to smile, right?

Stop having the thinking that, MY LIFE SUCKS MY LIFE SUCKS MY LIFE SUCKS FULL STOP.
seriously, your life suck that much huh?
You all have more than what others out there yearn for, so stop complaining.

Yesyes, perhaps you're living at the lowest point of your life now, but why not take it as a challenge to yourself, to make yourself stronger?
I know i don't have the rights to control your life or what, but i really HATE to see my friends emoing.

At least, i make an effort to google about how to cheer people up, google about motivational quotes, google about pictures that might cheer one up.
Not great, but I'm trying my best.

SO STOP WHINING AND HAVING NEGATIVE THOUGHTS EVERY SECOND.
Aren't you sometimes, tired of being upset over things?
Got so nice to emo is it? NOT.

Yeah, sorry if i sound really impatient and harsh.
'Cause I really am.
Not pint-pointing anyone, telling that to ALL MY FRIENDS.
Yes, i don't want y'all to be emo.

And lol, don't say what i don't understand or what.
i know i can't understand, but i thought a word of encouragement (scolding more like) might help.
Remember, everyone knows life is NEVER perfect. But well, live life the fullest 'cause you won't know what will happen next.
You only live ONCE, therefore, why not you make yr living here on Earth a fruitful and cheerful one?

It's okay to feel emo once in a while, but don't go overboard.
YOU ARE THE ONE WHO IS GOING TO SUFFER.
And it hurts to see my friends suffer. I don't like~

So you might think I have no rights to control yr emotions,
but i really want people to know that,


There are people who care.


" Don't let any emotion control you because you are the owner of your life, you're going to be a master of yourself."

" Everyone falls down, but it means we have something to climb back up and learn along the way."

" Every path has its share of puddles, but you're not supposed to avoid them, you're supposed to have fun jumping in them."

Cheers and God bless.
I love y'all.